看过这样一个小故事：

Have seen such a little story:

有一个人，年纪轻轻却整天愁眉苦脸、心态悲观，觉得自己过得特别不顺，便去咨询一位心理医生。医生听完他的叙述，只给他开了一个药方，年轻人看着药方觉得莫名其妙。

There was a young man who had a sad face and a pessimistic mood all day long, and felt that he was having a particularly bad life, so he went to consult a psychologist. After listening to his narrative, the doctor gave him only one prescription. The young man looked at the prescription and felt puzzled.

因为药方上既没有说要吃什么药，也没有说要用什么仪器治疗，只是简单地写着一行字：从身边找一个每天都过得很开心的朋友，早、中、晚各去探望他一次。

Because the prescription did not say what medicine to take, nor what equipment to use to treat, but simply wrote a line: from the side to find a happy friend every day, early, middle and late to visit him once.

年轻人将信将疑地照做了，几个月后，他兴高采烈地跑回来感谢那位医生——因为他焦虑的毛病竟然神奇般地痊愈了。

The young man followed suspiciously. A few months later, he came back happily to thank the doctor for his amazing recovery from his anxiety.

他疑惑地询问医生原因，医生笑着告诉他：“要让自己开心，就要和有趣的人在一起。没有什么药能比一个朋友的良性影响更有疗效了！”

He questioned the doctor doubtfully, and the doctor smiled and told him, "To make yourself happy, you have to be with interesting people. There is nothing more effective than a friend's benign influence!"

Two

朋友曾给我讲过一件事。

My friend once told me one thing.

一次，她和老公出去玩，半路却发现坐错了车，正当她焦急得不知该怎么办时，老公淡定地安慰她：“计划的景点可以明天再去，你看这边景色也挺漂亮的，往后两站正好是海边，咱们去那走走也挺好的。”

Once, she and her husband went out to play, but on the way to find the wrong bus, just when she was too anxious to know what to do, her husband calmly comforted her: "The planned attractions can go tomorrow, you see this side of the scenery is very beautiful, the next two stops are just the beach, let's go there and walk very good."

朋友听了，欣然同意了老公的建议，焦急的心情也逐渐平复下来。坐错车这个“小插曲”，并没有影响到他们那天游玩的心情。

The friend listened, agreeing with the husband's suggestion happily, and his anxious mood gradually calmed down. The "little episode" of taking the wrong car did not affect their mood of playing that day.

后来她向我感慨，自从遇到自己的老公，就被老公沉稳、随和的性格感染，自己也跟着改变了许多。曾经爱钻牛角尖的她，现在也慢慢发现，很多糟心的问题，只要换个角度，便可以轻而易举地解决。

Later, she sighed to me that she had been infected by her husband's calm and easy-going personality since she met him, and that she had also changed a lot. She once loved to drill a bull's horn, but now slowly found that many bad problems, as long as a change of angle, can be easily solved.

如果你选择和消极、悲观的人在一起，那么他的悲观情绪总会传递给你。但如果你能和快乐的人在一起，那么他的快乐和喜悦也会感染到你。

If you choose to be with negative and pessimistic people, their pessimism will always pass on to you. But if you can be with a happy person, his happiness and joy will also infect you.

人生实苦，而我们都在追求快乐和幸福。所以，最好的方法莫过于，和乐观的人在一起！

Life is hard, and we are all pursuing happiness and happiness. So the best way is to be with optimistic people.

Three

古语有言：“近朱者赤，近墨者黑。”和积极上进的人在一起有多重要，相信我们在学生时代都有感触。

There is an old saying: "near Zhu is red, near Mo is black." How important it is to be with positive people, I believe we all have feelings in our school days.

之前，云南昆明有一个“最牛学霸宿舍”曾在网络上走红。宿舍中的六个人，都是云南艺术学院设计学院的大四学生。自从分到一个宿舍以来，他们一起学习，一起参加比赛，一起度过了人生中最有意义的四年。结果，六个人的奖状加起来超过100本，获得的奖学金高达18万之多。

Previously, Kunming, Yunnan, had a "most bullish learning hegemony dormitory" which had become popular on the Internet. Six people in the dormitory are senior students of Design College of Yunnan Art College. Since they were assigned to a dormitory, they have studied together, participated in competitions together, and spent the most meaningful four years of their lives together. As a result, more than 100 certificates were awarded to six people, and as many as 180,000 scholarships were awarded.

面对前来采访的记者，他们说：“我们当中有的专业是服装与服饰设计，有的是产品设计。但大家都经常是早出晚归，忙于学习和活动。如果是人很多的公共课，我们还会提前20多分钟去抢座，期末前也会一起复习。”

Faced with the reporters who came to interview, they said, "Some of our specialties are clothing and costume design, and some are product design. But people often get up early and return late, busy with study and activities. If it's a public class with a lot of people, we'll grab seats more than 20 minutes in advance and review it together before the end of the term.

很难想象，在这样的环境中，还有人会熬夜打游戏、沉迷玩乐。

It's hard to imagine that in such an environment, some people will stay up late playing games and indulge in playing.

Four

和不同的人在一起，生活会完全不同。与智者同行，你会不同凡响；与高人为伍，你能登上巅峰。

With different people, life will be totally different. Walk with the wise, you will be extraordinary; with the wise, you can climb to the top.

和充满正能量、积极上进的人在一起，你也会充满干劲，成功的可能性大幅提高。和懒惰无趣、整天抱怨的人在一起，你也容易被他影响，变得蔫头耷脑，没有动力去学习和工作。

Together with people who are energetic and motivated, you will also be energetic and have a much higher chance of success. With lazy and boring people who complain all day long, you are easily influenced by them and become drowsy and have no motivation to study and work.

有句话说得好，看一个人在什么样的圈子里，就能知道他是什么样的人。想要事半功倍、拒绝平庸，那么一个上进、自律的“朋友圈”绝对是你的首选！

There is a saying that if you look at what kind of circle a person is in, you will know what kind of person he is. If you want to get twice the result with half the effort and refuse mediocrity, then a progressive and self-disciplined "circle of friends" is absolutely your first choice!

在我们的一生中，会遇到许多形形色色的人。我们无法决定自己的出身，但却可以决定以后要过的人生。我们无法改变身边的人，却可以选择和什么样的人在一起。

In our life, we will meet many different kinds of people. We can't decide our origin, but we can decide our future life. We can't change the people around us, but we can choose what kind of people to be with.

愿我们都能在有限的生命中，得两三知己，一知心爱人。

May we all have two or three bosom friends and one bosom lover in our limited life.

来源：读者（ID：duzheweixin）| 作者：末日之歌