人这一生，为什么要努力？

Why should people work hard in this life?

有人回答说：“做一个努力的人的好处在于，人人见了你都想帮你一把；如果你自己不努力，即使人家想拉你，都不知道你的手在哪。”

Someone replied, "the advantage of being an hardworking person is that everyone wants to help you when they see you; if you don't work hard, even if they want to pull you, they don't know where your hand is."

是啊，人之所以要努力，就是为了把命运攥在自己手里。过于依赖别人、指望别人成全自己的人生，到头来输的还是自己。

Yes, the reason why people have to work hard is to hold their destiny in their own hands. If you rely too much on others and expect others to complete your life, you will lose in the end.

公司之前有一个名牌大学毕业的实习生，人看起来很聪明，然而他却没有顺利通过实习期。辞退的原因是：工作态度不积极，主动性差。他觉得很委屈，认为自己一点儿错也没有，只是公司不识人才。于是临走前，他生气地找了他的上司理论，指责上司没有带好他。

Before the company, there was an intern who graduated from a famous university. He looked smart, but he didn't pass the internship. The reasons for the dismissal are: the working attitude is not active and the initiative is poor. He felt very aggrieved and thought that he was not at all wrong, just that the company did not know talents. So before he left, he angrily went to his boss and accused him of not taking him well.

他是这么说的：“作为一个上司，是有义务带下属成长的。遇到困难，你不拉我一把，我怎么会懂得努力呢？”

He said: "as a boss, it's an obligation to lead his subordinates to grow. If you don't give me a hand, how can I know how to work hard? "

其实，在这个世界上，没有人会为了你的未来买单。你要么努力向上，要么就深陷在泥淖里，这就是生活。总有一些时刻，是容不下你的伤春悲秋的。你的委屈、脆弱和无助，也必须要学着独自去承受和抚平。

In fact, in this world, no one will pay for your future. You either work hard or you're stuck in the mud. That's life. There are always some moments when you can't bear the pain of spring and autumn. Your grievance, vulnerability and helplessness must also learn to bear and heal alone.

人生不可能时常降临奇迹，除了你自己，没有谁可以一直被你依赖。指望别人，你就输了。凡事不要太怨天尤人，也不要一味等待他人施以援手。靠自己的力量一步步跨过泥泞，才能离想要的东西越来越近。

It's impossible to have miracles all the time. No one can be relied on by you except yourself. Count on others and you lose. Don't complain too much about things, and don't wait for help. Step by step, step by step, with your own strength, you can get closer to what you want.

钱，要靠自己去挣；路，要靠自己去走；苦，要靠自己去尝；事，要靠自己去扛。你的美好，也要懂得靠自己去成全。

We must earn money by ourselves; we must walk on our own way; we must taste bitterness by ourselves; we must carry things by ourselves. Your beauty also needs to know how to accomplish by yourself.

有人觉得，自立很累很苦；也有人觉得，太过独立会遇不到人爱。但我始终认为，比起依靠他人或指望一份没有担保的感情，投资自己、让自己变得独立而强大，才是一个人最该学会的事情。

Some people think that it's very tired and hard to be independent; others think that too much independence can't meet people's love. But I always think that it is the most important thing for a person to learn to invest in himself and become independent and strong, rather than rely on others or expect an unsecured relationship.

常常听别人讲一句话：“爱哭的孩子有糖吃，做人不必太独立、太懂事。”其实，这话一点儿都不对。依赖别人得到糖果或许很简单，但你得到的永远只是属于别人的糖果。

Often listen to others say a sentence: "crying children have sugar to eat, do not have to be too independent, too sensible." In fact, this is not right at all. It may be easy to rely on others to get candy, but what you get is always someone else's candy.

正如著名小说家卡夫卡所说的那样：“努力想要得到什么东西，其实只要沉着镇静、实事求是，就可以轻易地、神不知鬼不觉地达到目的。而如果过于使劲，闹得太凶、太幼稚、太没有经验，就哭啊、抓啊、拉啊，像一个小孩扯桌布，结果却是一无所获。只不过把桌上的好东西都扯到地上，永远也得不到了。”

As Kafka, the famous novelist, said, "if you try to get something, in fact, as long as you are calm and realistic, you can easily and unconsciously achieve your goal. If you are too hard, too fierce, too naive, too inexperienced, you will cry, catch and pull, just like a child pulling a tablecloth, but you will get nothing. Just drag all the good things on the table to the ground and never get them. "

努力和奋斗，也许是一个很艰苦、很痛苦的过程，但只要你努力地踮起脚尖，稍稍伸一下手，就可能碰触到糖果罐，吃到属于自己的糖果。而你也会明白：自己努力获得的糖果，真的会比别人施舍的甜。

Hard work and struggle may be a very hard and painful process, but as long as you try to stand on tiptoe and extend your hand a little, you may touch the candy can and eat your own candy. And you will also understand that the sweets you strive to get are really sweeter than those you give to others.

一味靠别人去满足自己的要求，指望别人成全自己的人生，最后失去的往往更多。唯有成为自己的贵人，人生才可能顺风顺水。

Rely on others to meet their own requirements, expect others to complete their own life, the final loss is often more. Only when you become your own noble person, can your life go smoothly.

曾看过这样一句话：“世界上没有一条道路是重复的，没有一个人生是可以替代的。每一个人都在经历着只属于自己的生活。”

I have seen a saying like this: "there is no road in the world that is repetitive, and no life that can be replaced.". Everyone is going through their own life. "

凡事不要太过于依赖别人，自己的人生也不要指望别人去成全。

Don't rely too much on others for everything, and don't expect others to accomplish your life.

有人说，如果忘记带伞，那么就在雨中拼尽全力奔跑。也许这听起来有些狼狈，但是那些努力奔跑的人会告诉你，凭自己的能力奔向目的地是一段多么痛快的旅程。也许在终点等待他的未必是成功，但这段过程却一定让人无悔。

Some people say that if you forget to take an umbrella, you should try your best to run in the rain. Maybe it sounds a bit awkward, but those who are trying to run will tell you how happy it is to go to the destination by their own ability. Maybe waiting for him at the end is not necessarily a success, but this process must be regretless.

无悔的人生，才没有遗憾。没有遗憾，每一天都是新的开始。你要记住：人生中最好的贵人，永远是努力的自己。

A life without regrets is a life without regrets. No regrets, every day is a new beginning. You should remember that the best noble person in life is always the one who works hard.

来源：净物（ID：cystyle001）|  作者：净静